Haircuts Without the Chatter: Why Silence in the Chair Works Best for Me

When most people think about getting a haircut, they picture a kind of mini “spa day.” The warm towels, the chit-chat, the small talk about the weather or weekend plans. For some, it’s an escape from the busy world outside. But for me, that’s not the case at all.

I’ve always preferred my haircuts to be quick, quiet, and efficient. As someone with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder), I find it incredibly difficult to focus on two things at once. So, when I’m sitting in the chair, I want the stylist to concentrate on cutting my hair, not holding a conversation. I understand they are capable of multi-tasking, and it always amazes me. But, talking while cutting feels like juggling two tasks, and neither gets the full attention it deserves. For me, silence isn’t awkward; it’s essential.

The truth is, I don’t go to the stylist for an “experience.” I go because my hair needs to be cut. I don’t need cucumber water, scalp massages, or long conversations about what’s happening on TV. I need a good haircut and the freedom to move on with my day.

That doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy the process. Quite the opposite. The sound of clippers buzzing near my ears has always had a calming effect on me. It’s almost meditative like a white noise machine that pulls me into a state of quiet focus. In fact, the hum of the clippers often relaxes me more than any conversation could. It’s one of the rare times I feel like I can switch off my mind and just be still.

I know some people love the social side of a haircut. They look forward to catching up with their stylist, venting about life, or simply chatting with someone who listens. And that’s great for them. But for people like me, the ideal haircut is short, quiet, and free from unnecessary small talk.

So, the next time you see someone sitting silently in the barber’s chair, know that it’s not rudeness. For some of us, silence is part of the relaxation. The clippers provide all the calm we need.

Do you prefer chatting or the silence? Post in the comment section below.